➢A beautiful woman is a sultry vixen, a string of curves hanging perfectly in the universe, a monument to gravity defiance and youthful skin-lust.
The beauty of a woman is contained not only in her saint, but in her sexuality. To describe a woman is to describe the beauty and body and mind which separates her from a man and makes her distinct from the other sex. Without lust and drive she is merely a faceless human being, veiled and unknown.
A woman loves a man who sees her for the woman that she is. He must see her for her hopes and dreams, likes and dislikes... the song that brings tearful memories of joy; and the tree that fills her with bitterness. But he must also see the other half of her, the part of her that takes over when the heat spreads to her cheeks and lips, and she feels a rush of sensation, a tingle of anticipation. He must be the man who takes her and ravishes her and completes her.
Without the second half a man is neutered before a woman. To refuse to acknowledge the sexuality that defines a man and a woman is to deny the very reason for a man and a woman to exist.
Saturday, June 13, 2015
Friday, June 12, 2015
The NAACP is bust - and the black community knows it
So news has broken that the leader of the Spokane chapter of the NAACP...
wait for it...
Is not black. And I mean not just "half white," I mean, she's the whole nine yards white, with German, Czech, and Swedish heritage. She faked being black by using tanning sprays and using hair tricks, and going as far as to pretend that an unrelated black man was her father.
What's interesting, of all things, is not the fact that the NAACP mistakenly hired a liar. It's not even the fact that she pretended to have a black family, going so far as to pretend that her adopted black brother was her son... nor the fact that she faked being discriminated against on the basis of her blackness... no, what I find insanely curious is the fact that...
That means that the black man who was asked (paid?) to pretend to be her father didn't care that she was a white woman pretending to be black and leading a part of the NAACP...
Her multiple black friends (she spent years inserted into the black community) who undoubtedly knew that she was really white said nothing...
Despite the fact that rumors had circulated for years that Rachel Dolezal was really white, and despite the fact that undoubtedly dozens of African Americans knew of the facade, not one black person cared enough to out her as a fraud when she headed the NAACP.
Instead, it was her parents who outed her - and I guarantee it had nothing to do with any sort of anger about her "appropriating black culture." After nearly six months of this charade, the parents (who had been completely cut from Rachel's life) went to the media, because her mother was upset about her being such a horrendous liar.
So... the black community that knew her didn't care enough to speak up when she went from merely faking an ethnicity to claiming to represent that ethnicity on a city-wide level. Not the people who weakly suspected her to be a fake; not the people who strongly suspected her to be a fake; not the people who knew for a fact that she was fake...
-and no, the outrage you see happening now in the media is irrelevant. Of course the black community has to be "outraged" at the lies; otherwise the NAACP loses total face, instead of partial face. It doesn't change the facts, though.
wait for it...
Is not black. And I mean not just "half white," I mean, she's the whole nine yards white, with German, Czech, and Swedish heritage. She faked being black by using tanning sprays and using hair tricks, and going as far as to pretend that an unrelated black man was her father.
'Black' #Spokane @NAACP leader #RachelDolezal outed as white http://t.co/y1veMefQ4r #11Alive pic.twitter.com/1NPwvDkVbv
— Michael King (@mhking) June 12, 2015
What's interesting, of all things, is not the fact that the NAACP mistakenly hired a liar. It's not even the fact that she pretended to have a black family, going so far as to pretend that her adopted black brother was her son... nor the fact that she faked being discriminated against on the basis of her blackness... no, what I find insanely curious is the fact that...
Rachel Dolezal wasn't outed by a member of the black community.
Rachel Dolezal was outed by her pasty white parents.
That means that the black man who was asked (paid?) to pretend to be her father didn't care that she was a white woman pretending to be black and leading a part of the NAACP...
Her multiple black friends (she spent years inserted into the black community) who undoubtedly knew that she was really white said nothing...
Despite the fact that rumors had circulated for years that Rachel Dolezal was really white, and despite the fact that undoubtedly dozens of African Americans knew of the facade, not one black person cared enough to out her as a fraud when she headed the NAACP.
Instead, it was her parents who outed her - and I guarantee it had nothing to do with any sort of anger about her "appropriating black culture." After nearly six months of this charade, the parents (who had been completely cut from Rachel's life) went to the media, because her mother was upset about her being such a horrendous liar.
So... the black community that knew her didn't care enough to speak up when she went from merely faking an ethnicity to claiming to represent that ethnicity on a city-wide level. Not the people who weakly suspected her to be a fake; not the people who strongly suspected her to be a fake; not the people who knew for a fact that she was fake...
NOT ONE BLACK PERSON SAID A SINGLE WORD
Which pushes forward a single conclusion, I think:
The NAACP is irrelevant to the black community. The black community is done with other black people -real or fake- claiming to represent them. Not only that, but even those who worry about social justice (you know, the people that would have jumped over one another to befriend Rachel Dolezal after her public proclamations of victimhood) didn't care enough to do anything.I think the black community is starting to care less and less about the concept of social justice - or at the very least, the black community in Spokane. I think that's a good thing.
-and no, the outrage you see happening now in the media is irrelevant. Of course the black community has to be "outraged" at the lies; otherwise the NAACP loses total face, instead of partial face. It doesn't change the facts, though.
The NAACP is bust - and the black community knows it.
Tuesday, June 9, 2015
How to Break Free of the Friend Zone
➢I hate the word "friend zone." The word feels dishonest, and time and again I find that the people who use the word are being exactly that - dishonest. That's not to say that men in general are lying idiots (no more so than the lying idiot women that inhabit the world), but rather that some men just can't help but be willing to compromise themselves when it comes to any piece of moist flesh they find their blood shafts aroused by.
Yes, this is a harsh post. I can't explain why I'm talking like this. But know that even though I write with a very, very harsh tone, much of what I say is backed with an incredible compassion towards the people who act like this - not because they want to, but because they don't know any other way of behaving.
Because of this, it's important to understand where you stand in society if you exhibit these behaviors. For those who find themselves in the friend zone (aka you find yourself attracted to a woman with whom you're "just friends," and you're dumb enough to actually use the term...), two general situations tend to apply. They are as follows.
Never mind the fact that lying and manipulation are both incredibly unattractive and happen to be the hallmarks of men with incredibly low standards. Never mind the fact that there are over 3 billion other women in the world, and you're obsessing over this one chick. Never mind the fact that this girl could be hooking you up with her one hot friend who's single if you'd just stop with the idiocy...
But hey, I'm sure there's plenty of ego-gratifying self-pity to go around in the friend zone. Listen, there's a short maxim I'd like you to memorize. I wouldn't call it an ultimate principle of life, but it's pretty damn close, so here goes:
Women of quality deserve men of quality, and vice versa - so, if the girl you like is a woman of quality, what do you you need to be in order to deserve her - hell, in order to even show up on her radar?
...now you're getting it.
Btw, I understand your predicament, you guys who are stuck in the "friend zone." You've been lying for months, maybe years. "I can't say something now, what will she think?" Well, lying hasn't gotten you anywhere this far; you might want to try something new. PS, a small number of you may have previously confessed your love to her - and it was a train wreck, then you laid low for a while while she ignored you, then you slowly got back into her good graces by either apologizing or pretending nothing had happened...
Listen: being weak and inconsistent isn't attractive either. If you're in the "friend zone," it's because you're behaving in a way that is fundamentally not sexually attractive to the girl in question. This is basic psychology.
And to answer your next question, the one you're not actually daring to ask: yes, if you're honest with the girl AND stick to your guns and choose to be someone who actually keeps to their standards, you may lose the friendship. But then again, a friendship isn't a romance, is it? And clearly the friend zone route isn't getting you anywhere. Better to have a non-friendship with a girl who respects that you have boundaries, than to have a false friendship with a girl who thinks of you as "her little brother" (and not in the erotica incest porn way either).
It's time to be honest with yourself about what you want. Hell, you might not even want the girl. You might just be super interested because she seems so unattainable and for no other reason. But whatever it is, you need to actually address it. Lying to the girl is lame, cowardly, and it's wrong. Nobody wants to be in a relationship built on a lie - whether that relationship is romantic or not. So stop torturing yourself. Be brave. Step up. Exit the friend zone. I promise, regardless of the outcome, you'll love yourself a lot more because of it.
In case you're wondering how to avoid the friend zone in the first place, take this conversation as a starting point, and work your way from there.
-and then you walk away, or change topics, and it's no big deal. I guarantee the girl has never had that happen to her in her life - and she will remember you. Alternatively, if you can manage to actually keep it in your pants when it comes to hot girls, and form a group of hot female friends that you are genuinely just friends with (remember, no bullshitting yourself on this. It has to be real.), you put yourself in a really good position to meet a lot of great women, and have women of quality vouching for you. When a girl recognizes that you are a catch, she will try to set you up with other great women in her life. Why?
Because great men are a rarity, and women love to have them in their life, even if only as friends.
Guys, forget the friend zone. Ditch the concept. Stop trapping yourselves in emotion-zapping, torturous friendships that are based on a lie. If you like a girl, be honest about it. There are 3 billion of women in the world, and most of them are a fingertip away from an introduction. Don't screw it up by lowering your standards on the hopes that one girl will lower her standards to match. You're better, and you deserve better.
~end.
PS, not that this is related or anything, but to those married people: if your spouse is your "best friend," then you're really bad at making friends. Marriages without a social life are death traps, to even the healthiest marriages.
Yes, this is a harsh post. I can't explain why I'm talking like this. But know that even though I write with a very, very harsh tone, much of what I say is backed with an incredible compassion towards the people who act like this - not because they want to, but because they don't know any other way of behaving.
Because of this, it's important to understand where you stand in society if you exhibit these behaviors. For those who find themselves in the friend zone (aka you find yourself attracted to a woman with whom you're "just friends," and you're dumb enough to actually use the term...), two general situations tend to apply. They are as follows.
The loser: "Sure she rejected me, but if I lie and pretend that I'm totally okay with just friendship, maybe one day she'll realize her mistake!"
The coward: "I haven't even stated my intentions, but maybe I can trick her into falling for me if she just gets rejected by someone else and I'm there at the right time."
Never mind the fact that lying and manipulation are both incredibly unattractive and happen to be the hallmarks of men with incredibly low standards. Never mind the fact that there are over 3 billion other women in the world, and you're obsessing over this one chick. Never mind the fact that this girl could be hooking you up with her one hot friend who's single if you'd just stop with the idiocy...
But hey, I'm sure there's plenty of ego-gratifying self-pity to go around in the friend zone. Listen, there's a short maxim I'd like you to memorize. I wouldn't call it an ultimate principle of life, but it's pretty damn close, so here goes:
If you're not willing to be honest with yourself or with the girl, you don't deserve the girl.
Women of quality deserve men of quality, and vice versa - so, if the girl you like is a woman of quality, what do you you need to be in order to deserve her - hell, in order to even show up on her radar?
...now you're getting it.
Btw, I understand your predicament, you guys who are stuck in the "friend zone." You've been lying for months, maybe years. "I can't say something now, what will she think?" Well, lying hasn't gotten you anywhere this far; you might want to try something new. PS, a small number of you may have previously confessed your love to her - and it was a train wreck, then you laid low for a while while she ignored you, then you slowly got back into her good graces by either apologizing or pretending nothing had happened...
Listen: being weak and inconsistent isn't attractive either. If you're in the "friend zone," it's because you're behaving in a way that is fundamentally not sexually attractive to the girl in question. This is basic psychology.
And to answer your next question, the one you're not actually daring to ask: yes, if you're honest with the girl AND stick to your guns and choose to be someone who actually keeps to their standards, you may lose the friendship. But then again, a friendship isn't a romance, is it? And clearly the friend zone route isn't getting you anywhere. Better to have a non-friendship with a girl who respects that you have boundaries, than to have a false friendship with a girl who thinks of you as "her little brother" (and not in the erotica incest porn way either).
It's time to be honest with yourself about what you want. Hell, you might not even want the girl. You might just be super interested because she seems so unattainable and for no other reason. But whatever it is, you need to actually address it. Lying to the girl is lame, cowardly, and it's wrong. Nobody wants to be in a relationship built on a lie - whether that relationship is romantic or not. So stop torturing yourself. Be brave. Step up. Exit the friend zone. I promise, regardless of the outcome, you'll love yourself a lot more because of it.
In case you're wondering how to avoid the friend zone in the first place, take this conversation as a starting point, and work your way from there.
"Hey, so are you single? You seem like a really cool person and I think I'd like to get to know you more."
No sorry, I have a boyfriend. We can still be friends, though.
"Nah, it's okay. To be honest, if you're as cool as you seem to be, I probably wouldn't want to be just friends with you, and I don't do the crappy sideways shit. So we won't worry about this, okay? Have a great day."
-and then you walk away, or change topics, and it's no big deal. I guarantee the girl has never had that happen to her in her life - and she will remember you. Alternatively, if you can manage to actually keep it in your pants when it comes to hot girls, and form a group of hot female friends that you are genuinely just friends with (remember, no bullshitting yourself on this. It has to be real.), you put yourself in a really good position to meet a lot of great women, and have women of quality vouching for you. When a girl recognizes that you are a catch, she will try to set you up with other great women in her life. Why?
Because great men are a rarity, and women love to have them in their life, even if only as friends.
Guys, forget the friend zone. Ditch the concept. Stop trapping yourselves in emotion-zapping, torturous friendships that are based on a lie. If you like a girl, be honest about it. There are 3 billion of women in the world, and most of them are a fingertip away from an introduction. Don't screw it up by lowering your standards on the hopes that one girl will lower her standards to match. You're better, and you deserve better.
~end.
PS, not that this is related or anything, but to those married people: if your spouse is your "best friend," then you're really bad at making friends. Marriages without a social life are death traps, to even the healthiest marriages.
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